just between us ✿

So… you said yes πŸ₯Ή

I made you a little something.

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april 3, 2026
april 3, 2026
april 3, 2026

Before anything else…

My beautiful woman,

I've been calling you my girlfriend for months. Making it official feels a little unreal.

I like you because of how you care, and you have a mind that I really like. I like how we can talk about serious things, then five minutes later we are laughing at something completely unserious.

All round, I think we go well together. I meant it when I said I plan on making you feel seen, loved, and everything that comes with it.

I am very happy to be your boyfriend. I love you like mad.

yours,
Mr Crocs

Things only we would understand

Good night Mr Crocs.

March 7, 2026, 12:45 AM a name was born
"But crocs are very comfy 😩" was all the defense I had. You proceeded to call me Mr Crocs, Chef Crocs, Doctor Crocs, Daddy Crocs, and once just "Crocs." I answer to all of them.

…I saw a picture of you and I was flabbergasted by the beauty.

May 25, 2021, message #4 ever
My opening line. You called me a liar about this years later. Worth it.

Lines dey cryyyy 🀣

your forever catchphrase
Said with such conviction every single time. The lines really were crying.

We have some very weird things in common.

March 7, 2026
Three days later, you said: "I was so glad when I found out we reasoned the same way. It was a full circle moment tbh." I think about that often.

In my defense, you look way better in person.

March 9, 2026
"Take mid pictures so they're stunned when we see in person 😎", your response, and exactly the energy I love.

The only pepper I'll show you is the one in the food I'll be feeding you soon.

March 7, 2026, my best comeback ever
You said "the pepper is loading" and I went into full flirt mode. Days later you used it back on me: "I just know the pepper is loading πŸ˜‘". TouchΓ©.

Reasons I'm obsessed with you

You make normal conversations feel fun. I look forward to every one of them.
The laugh. Not just the 🀣🀣🀣 in chat, the real one. It's a whole event.
You're a creative genius. Not because I'm your boyfriend. Because it's true.
You laugh at my jokes. Even the bad ones. Especially the bad ones.
Your voice. The way you speak, too. I told you on April 21 and I'll keep telling you.
You're gentle with me in a way I'm still getting used to.
You call me thoughtful. I'm just trying to keep up with you.
You're a fighter. I see it. I'm not the only one who does.

Something you said.

Hey, I am beyond grateful for the gift of you. It doesn't matter if things don't work out between us, I'm just so happy to have met you. You're a very special person that I do not take for granted. ✨
Cindyrella, May 5, 2026

I read it five times in a row. I'm still reading it.

A very small map of us

May 25, 2021 Β· 6:04 PM
First message ever

"Hello Cindy. My name's Jide." Isah gave me your number. You replied with "Alright Jide" and I told myself I'd try my luck.

2022 β†’ 2025
The long quiet

In my defense, you didn't reply on time once and I held a grudge for almost three years. I'd see your name pop up on WhatsApp stories and scroll past on principle. I'm a changed man now, baby. 😘

February 2026
Trying to pin a date

"Next week sounds good." "Which day works?" "Get back to me with a place." A whole month of me trying, and you politely buying time. I held on. Thank God I did.

March 4, 2026
Finally a plan

"Friday 6pm. Lyte food, St Rita." Locked in. You called yourself my neighbor 🌚. I was already counting down.

March 6, 2026
The first time

We finally met. That same night, at 10:27 PM, you texted me "Mr Crocs." The nickname has stuck ever since.

March 7, 2026
The morning after

"I'll prefer to chat in person, I think our conversation is better that way." I meant it. But somehow we still text 300 times a day.

March 17, 2026
I knew

"Once you become my girlfriend officially…" I said it casually. I wasn't being casual at all.

April 3, 2026
The first real date

Dresses, heels, a bag that you said smelled like me, a busted zip on the fringe skirt. And then, finally, our first kiss. Which would've been perfect if your minty breath hadn't been so aggressive.

April 21, 2026
The first "I love..."

"I love your voice." Small sentence. Huge feeling. You said "I love your confidence" a week later. We were taking turns.

May 12, 2026
One year

365 days sober. You hadn't stopped crying since 11pm the night before. I wrote you a handwritten note, because some things shouldn't be typed. You said: "Thank you for seeing me." Baby, I'll always see you.

July 31, 2026
You said yes 🌸

And now I get to call you mine, officially. No more "future girlfriend." Just girlfriend. Yayyyy!

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